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The Risky Referral

A good friend asks you to give a glowing reference for a job they just interviewed for. You are former colleagues, but your friend got fired from the place you worked at together. Your former coworker (now good friend) was always late for work and didn't complete projects on time.

Refusing to put in a good word could ruin your friendship. But your own professional reputation is also on the line.

What do you do?

Give a glowing reference. You owe your friend your loyalty.
Refuse to give the testimonial. You wouldn't hire this person and you aren't going to lie for them.

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